Relationship Mastermind | Begins May 2027
Become the one who chooses…
A 4-month container for those ready for more in love: to build the closeness, core connection, insight & understanding that forge truly deep partnership.
If you’ve been single for a while - uncertain as to what needs to shift within you; are seeking support with a challenging relationship in the present; or losing to build something of real sustainability for the future- this is your space. A bespoke programme of handpicked students: evolving the version of you most available for love, and the relationship dynamics that most support them.
Does this sound familiar?
You are a brilliant empath, predictor, provider to those around you. Insightful, widely capable, artfully sensitive to the needs of others. The person people come to - to share with safety, to find their ground.
And yet - in the realm of love - you find yourself at odds.
Disconnected, somehow. Blocked.
Out of sync with your own essential needs, deeper desire or the voice that speaks your preferences. Perhaps you’ve been single for some time - wondering what’s stopping you from truly leaning in. Or, you’re in partnership: committed, and yet aware of a call for more. Deep closeness, greater joy, an uncompromising honesty that brings you both together. Perhaps, this is the moment in your life where settling, compromising, is no longer as important as lasting connecting - tired of the avoidant, anxious & resistant patterns that rule much of modern dating.
Our patterns aren’t flaws. They’re templates: strategies we absorb in our earliest years, reinforced imperceptibly by a modern dating & relationship climate where intimacy and connection aren’t taught. Where self-love and others-love aren’t cultivated with ease. This is your chance to re-write the script - in real time, with the material of your life.
Imagine a space where your wounds and invisible barriers to connection are resolved; where you gain a lens on your partner that lets you truly see and care for them beyond the scripts that keep us stuck.
Where you stop seeking to be chosen, and become the chooser - of yourself, your life and the match that’s aligned. Where love stops being something you work for, and becomes something you stand in with ease.
Who’s this for?
Singles.
You feel ready for connection: to explore the possibility of love with openness, self-knowing and a growing confidence in your innate value . Includes live support for those entering the dating field.
Couples.
You want greater understanding, attunement and intimacy. To meet one another, rather than live at odds. To cultivate deeper foundations, for the life you’d like to build.
Therapists and coaches.
You want to explore relational dynamics in support of your clients, and understand how your own experience shapes your lens.
Anyone who moves into fear around others.
If you mind-read, self-compromise and struggle to hold space for your own wants, this is for you. Relationships make up the vast majority of our lives and experience - this terrain, beyond any, is our most fruitful endeavour.
Coming home to love, one layer at a time
In our four months together we will explore…
✧ Your patterning. Anxious, avoidant or inconsistent patterns, people-pleasing, codependency, resistance, inauthenticity, addictive yearning for others. What each gives you, what it costs, and how to bring your history up to date with your present.
✧ Your nervous system. What gets coded, where it lives and how to begin to heal. Why unsafe, unsatisfying or unstable relationships feel so familiar, and how to shift your set points.
✧ Your vision. Your essential needs, desires, priorities and boundaries; how to read what a partner is truly available for, and what they may be unable to fulfill. The key here is arming someone with understanding, internal processing and from there: choice.
✧ Your connection, and autonomy. Intimacy, reciprocity, honesty, desire, conflict. We will look at where you end, and they begin: negotiating the dance between you.
✧ Your wider love. Connection to community, care for beginnings & endings, outgrowing templates that no longer serve you.
How we’ll hold you:
4 MONTHS
Weekly sessions, held live
EXPERIENTIAL PRACTICE
With visiting guest teachers
A BESPOKE LIBRARY
Meditations, resources, embodied practice, your for 2 months after we close
PRE-CONTAINER PRACTICES
Prime your goals before we begin
INTEGRATION BEYOND
We close with an in-person dinner in August and further connection points
SMALL GROUPS
Places are limited and by application, so the group is right for everyone in it.
WHO WALKS BESIDE YOU
I have always been compelled by people’s stories: the blueprint of history, biology and belief that brings someone to the life they live, and ultimately, to my door.
In more than ten years as a mentor and coach, I have watched the same thing play out in love. Brilliant, capable people who read everyone else with ease, and yet find themselves watching, compromising or waiting to be chosen. Or sitting in a good relationship, knowing there is more in it.
It is rarely a lack of desire or worth. It is the body~mind doing what it was designed to do: seeking what is familiar, what feels safe, what echoes the love we first learnt. Our nervous system chooses for us, until we learn to choose for ourselves.
That is the work of this container. I blend nervous system science, embodiment and coaching to dissolve the legacies that shape who you choose, how you love, and what you allow yourself to receive. Not to criticise the person you have become, but to release the templates that no longer align with the person you want to be.
Much of this is about letting go. Surrender, release, re-imagine, and root in a quality of ease and natural connection that makes a richer love possible, with a partner, and with the wider community that holds you.
You won’t be held by me alone. You will be joined by leading voices in hypnosis, somatics, parental imprints and breathwork, each bringing their own lens on how we learn to love, and how we learn to love differently.
I can invite you into this because I have lived it. As my own life reformed, so did my understanding of love. And that clarity, that agency, is just as available to you.
Your invitation
Investment
£2,500 early bird rate, including all current students.
Available until Christmas, after which the price rises.
Places are limited and by application, so the group is right for everyone in it.
✓ Discounted attendance at 2027 events
✓ Library access for 2 months after the container
✓ Affiliate opportunities for the 2028 container
What’s next?
I
APPLY
Complete our short form.
II
CONNECT
A 30-minute conversation if selected.
III
BEGIN
Welcome, and your pre-container practices.